I am totally into this book:
Read it. Please. I may be completely frustrated- because its opening my eyes to the way I sometimes think and work, especially here- but I am loving what it is teaching me and the ideas it is giving me about how to do ministry. Like any book, some thoughts and suggestions may need to be ignored or changed to work in your living situation or place of ministry, but I think as a whole it is an eye-opener to my behaviors and thinking and has great theories and practical applications.